They say and we feel and this happened through out your life. The feeling on sale is love and the cost is your life and all you know about it. First time when we feel love is when a mother touches a new born baby which is a life which gets created by the evolution process of human beings, it is something that she creates and gives all care in the world to keep it safe and growing. Yes love from your parents is selfless and if we do not agree then we should definitely create or have something which we nurture and grow. But all kinds of love are influences like to begin with the parents, they do want there child to be something which is best according to there own views and opinions which can be absolutely correct and drastically wrong under different circumstances. But as they say “we did what we thought was best for you” and of-course you as a child have little say in that irrespective of what is your opinion or understanding of the situation. Well that is dumb love from one side which is always successful as other part is dictating the terms of your relationship.So no matter how much you question the behavior and treatment from your parents in your life you always love them because this was the first “you taste love in your life”.
First time when babies tastes milk they do not like it but as our bodies do have a requirement to grow and survive they develop the taste for it. So first love is nothing but survival instinct performing at your best and that is why we say there is nothing like first love because you didn’t know how to survive and you learnt on the job. And whether you fail or pass it doesn’t matter, you tried it for the first time. In life if you are living you don’t have to love, it will happen to you as it connects back to same social dependence of taking care and being taken care of. But now the love is not dumb any more from one side and this stimulates the pleasure all over you, now you can not only feel love but you can make love as well. The indefinite pleasure of being human is making love, the most basic feeling of all to feel that connect that aroma that one beat of heart together.
But how all of it starts, Well now it all starts with admiration. “Love is nothing but to admire” the person for there behavior,achievements,looks,conversation and all basic of human traits. There is an idea of a person that is built in our head as we survive our years on this surface with experiences that we go through. Once we find the little part of that idea in a person believe me we start behaving like a teenager no matter your age.You fall in love and then the bad part is that all us wants to be perceived in a certain way by our loved ones and what makes it worse that these feelings are on both the sides. Because there is no control perseverance which makes the whole situation very chaotic, the mutual feeling of admiring each other is gone. Once you pass this stage the relationship becomes critical of each other, you start correcting each other and really nobody fits the mold they already have one which they cannot break. All we want is dumb love but we agreed before that it is not possible anymore because its already done and then you start falling out of love. The idea is that “you gotta do what you gotta do” nobody can really change a person, You cannot break the fucking mold. But instead you should just stop seeing so much of yourself in someone else “ A mirror cant really change much about the image, its all image only”. And yes we do fall out of love most of the times but remember we do fall only when we were in.
Expressions of life 